Better to be happier than to be better

We live in a world where achievement, status, job, reputation, and money are the indicators of how successful we are. Everyone starts comparing each other. Why? Because they want to know who is better. Why? Because they want to be the better one. The question they ask is always "Who is richer?" or "Who did better?" or "Who has higher status?

Well, we don't need to play by the rule of this world. The truth is, the most interesting people are those who can be the happiest, not the richest or the smartest. The happiest people don't need to ask "Who is happier?" Only insecured people always compare. They need acceptance from others to make sure they fulfill the expectation of the world.

Happy people, the true happy people, know how to enjoy every simple things in life no matter what people say, no matter what the world sees them. They don't need confirmation from others to make them officially happy. When they are happy, they know they are happy. They just feel the happiness from the inside, not outside. For me, they're the best of all. They're the winners.

You don't need to be the best. Just be the happiest.

i love you with all my hypothalamus

When we love someone we can't just keep quiet. To express that feeling is natural and pleasing. Praises, legitimate praises, freely emanate from our hearts. Often conscious of the looks, the clothes, and other personality facets of the object of our tender feelings. Some of us become poets in our attempts to release our special emotions.     Everytime we talk about love, heart goes eventually. Does the heart really matter on what we feel? Why do others follow the palpitation of their heart and not for the command of ther brain? Actually, this is not true. You are in love, it is not because of your heart. Heart only pumps our blood. It circulates our blood in our body and there's nothing between heart annd love. The only scientific explanation between our hearts with love is our heartbeats. Whenever we see our love one we feel tense, eventually the pressure of our blood moves faster at the same time heartbeats increase. There is nothing about heart and love, what really matters is our HYPOTHALAMUS.      Hypothalamus is a part of our brain, located below the thalamus and including the pituary gland, contains centers for regulating body temperature, blood pressure, pulse rate, perspiration and other functions controlled by the autonomic nervous system. The heart beats faster because of our hypothalamus. We become conscious in everything, we even become poets and show special attention to others because of our hypothalamus. Without or hypothalamus, human being will never experience to love and to be loved in return. Hypothalamus is essential for our emotions or feelings. Those things, which are called heart feelings, should be change and called hypothalamus feelings.     Through this, you may determine lovers who really inspire loving you. If I were you, instead of saying " I love you with all my heart" I would rather say " I love you with all my hypothalamus" because it is the fact

One LOVE, One LiFETiME

I never thouhgt I could have another love again after my past broken love, 'cause it seems that it so hard again after my fall. It's hard to think  again of another sunrise, for sunsets are the ones that cover my days. Sunsets that signify the end of another day, another hope! Sunsets that trully sadden me because it seems that there are so many things left undone and there's no way to bring back what had already passed. It's very difficult for me to accept that I'm alone again. Looking forward for something I don't even know how to start. Now I fully understand what my cousin used to tell me that it is always "darkness before dawn" because I had fully experienced nights in all its darkness that makes me lost and feel confused. Sometimes I even don't let myself from being exposed during the day just to escape from the extreme power of the night-the power of putting us into confusion and depression. Or even passed by sunsets into sunrise. But then life follows a certain order. One must go through darkness before you can see the sun 'cause it is the darkness that make us search for answers. Answers that could be a way for us to forget asking, "why are we being hurt and rejected by other people?" and I guess I know one of the best reasons why, and that is we are being hurt because we loved. But we should remember that hurting is a part of loving as well as with life. So we must learn to go on with the flow, 'cause if not, we will be left behind. That's the best part of living, learning to accept failures, to continue and change. Like what I did, I just fight out of love. Yes, I admit at first my emotions covers my fighting spirit but as usual as time goes by I'd learn to forget first my emotions and just go on with my life. But that's not that easy 'cause it's not that simple for me to trust other people again because the only thing that is stocked on my mind is that I could never trust anyone. Still, I tried to be strong and hard, not to mingle with my old friends because I believe that they couln't help me, but I was wrong, very wrong cause it made my heart more heavier to carry upon, made another cross to carry and made my life more miserable for the truth is my friends are my life,they're the ones who brought sense to my pale and lonely life. And my heart seeks for someone to talk with, someone whom I can lean on and someone who can help me cope up again after a big trial that have come to me. And now, I'm still here-living a very contented life again.

FALLiNG iNLOVE

Have you tried to fall in love? Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life the gift of love will come to you and you will take hold of it and celebrate it in expressible beauty. This is the dream we share. More often, it will come and take hold of you, celebrate with you for a brief moment, then move on. When it happens to teenagers, they too often grasp it to them, refusing to see that it is freely given and a gift that just freely, moves away. When they fall out of love, or the person they love feels the spirit of love leaving, they try desperately to reclaim the love that is lost rather than accepting for what is was then moving on. They want answers where there are no answers. They want to know what is wrong in them that makes other person no longer love them, or they get their lover to change, thinking that if they go far away and start a new life together, there love will grow. You need to know this about love and accept it. You need to treat what it brings you with kindness. If you find yourself in love with someone who doesn't love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart. If you find that someone else is in love and you don't love him, do not take advantage, do not cause pain. How you deal with love is how you deal with you and all our hearts feel the same pain and joys even if our lives and ways are different. If you fall in love with another person and he falls in love with you and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it, or to assess blame. Let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time. Remember this, it can be made to grow only by giving it away. Love has its own time, its own seasons and reasons for coming and going. You cannot bribe or coerce it, or reason it into staying. You can only embrace it when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave you from heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do. Love always has been. Be glad it came for a moment in your life. If you keep your heart open, it will come again.